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2011年8月1日星期一

Is he really worth it or did i make a mistake?

-so last weekend i threw a party at my house i told my boyfriend to come and he surprisingly showed up with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. He stayed a while then all them left. i left my own party because i wasn't in the right state of mind and went to mcdonalds with my friends. turns out my boyfriend and the people he was with were there. then they left and i called him asking him if i could stay the night he said yeah so i told him i'd be over soon. then on the way he called back and said we don't need to be spending the night together anymore cus we needed space and to stop fighting so i showed up and wouldn't leave he got realllll pissed off and told me he'd take me home himself. so i ran around his neighborhood and was playing games. he finally found me and told me to get in so i did and him and his cousin took me home. once i got to my house i told him i wasn't getting out unless he came with me. so he spent the night with me. and later his friend showed up at my house. we all were up all night and we kept fighting. that morning at 6 am he finally just left my house and walked home which is 15 miles. he said he didn't wanna be there anymore. it made me really upset so i was yelling a screaming and he hasn't talked to me since. the only thing he's told me is he's better without me and i don't know if i made the mistake or if in reality he should just forgive me for everything i did wrong....Way too much drama. Forget him. You need to mature some more before dating. And also, what are you sleeping around at your age. Get some self respect and quit settling for less. Focus on school and planning a career for yourself. Sex has nothing to do with love.
You made the mistake of staying with him. You didn't say what the fights were about, so I don't know who is at fault if anyone really is. Point is, if your fighting so much, you don't belong together.
Your "boyfriend" is using you. Dump the chump.
I am not sure what kind of guy your boyfriend is, but is sounds like you made a mistake. Playing games and such is never a good idea. Being honest and mature is best. If you guys are fighting lots, then maybe you both need time apart. A relationship isn't good for anyone if you aren't getting along and just want to hurt each other. If he isn't good to you or treats you badly, then I would cut your losses and move on. Also you need to consider what are you doing to make the fights start or get worse? If you need to talk to him be calm and do it when both of you are not mad.

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